In chapter 11 the Bible said Sarai was barren. In chapter 12, God tells a 75-year-old Abram that he’ll be made a great nation. I wonder if Abram thought kids were still part of his future, or if he interpreted God’s words differently. I wonder how old Sarai was - normally I’d assume she was Abram’s age, but I’m not sure that makes sense. For one, the Abram’s brother married his other brother’s daughter. So there was already an age gap. There’s also the matter of just how attractive everyone thought Sarai was. That inclines me to think she’s at least a bit younger, though whether she was of child-bearing age I don’t know.
As crazy as, “Do me a favor: tell them you’re my sister” reads, what’s even nuttier is the implication Noah was fine to profit from Pharaoh living with Sarai. This seems an awful lot like Abram was pimping out his wife… for at least a little while… for the sake of security and increased material wealth.
I have no idea what to make of that, but I completely understand Pharaoh’s apparent righteous indignation. What kind of a man does that? I just cannot imagine what Abram was thinking, or Sarai for that matter. Perhaps they both anguished over this, and perhaps there’s an unwritten power Pharaoh was wielding that made it impossible to correct this in a more normal sense. But from the text alone I have little choice but to this Abram is a pretty lousy husband and man.